So how do you cure this? When you have a relationship with someone, be it friend or loved one, how do you cure it? That constant anxious feeling, its the love hate thing. You love them to death which makes you focus on their every move. I know some of you may be saying, what the hell is she talking about? I’m purposely trying to be vague, don’t worry. I think about it, i react, and not until later do i rationalize things. That’s the bad thing. I’m not yet able to think about both sides before I react and get upset. I see it with alot of people. They freak out at the smallest of things, and their loved one may think ” What the hell, what gives you the right to do that?” Really though, I think that is true love. Only someone who will watch you like a hawk and focus on your every thought, really loves you. ON the other hand that could be stalkerish, but im not talking about that kind of thing. I love this person, I will always love this person, but I can’t yet cure it. Is it a bad thing? I dont know. Maybe i’m just a very sensitive person, or maybe its cause i care. I don’t think caring too much is a bad thing.
One day a man was walking along the beach when he noticed
a boy picking something up and gently throwing it into the ocean.Approaching the boy, he asked, “What are you doing?”
The youth replied, “Throwing starfish back into the ocean.
The surf is up and the tide is going out. If I don’t throw them back, they’ll die.”“Son,” the man said, “don’t you realize there are miles and miles of beach and hundreds of starfish?
You can’t make a difference!”After listening politely, the boy bent down, picked up another starfish,
and threw it back into the surf. Then, smiling at the man, he said…”
I made a difference for that one.”
Don’t forget those who you once said would always mean the most
